Dwarf them with love

We all become angry at certain point of time, and it makes the worst out of us to come out, the devil that we all have within. And we regret, that what the heck we did, but once done is done. You can’t reverse it, you have to bear the guilt and broken by the pain with each passing day.

But you know what you could have avoided all that. Anger, hate are never solution to anything, anything even remotely. Yes, they are natural, just like your existence, your unlikeness your anger towards someone or something would be there. But that shall not take control of you. You shall be the master of your emotion, your mental health and overall well-being. And it in turn is better for your loved ones, folks around you.

If you can’t love them, just don’t hate them. Maybe you don’t agree with their point, but even then not everyone worth your precious time and thoughts to be wasted on them. After all ignorance is bliss.

And lastly if you want to be happy, try to love them, for once as unconditional as someone’s parent would love him/ her, dwarf then with love, be the bigger person. There certainly something is in stake, you may loose your trust, patience, energy, time and can even be emotionally exhausted. But even then if your heart is saying it, hear its calling once, try to spread the love, because an eye for an eye can make the whole world blind

Ekala chala

 Jadi tor daak sune keu na ase… Ekala chala

Sometimes it’s better to be lone, all with yourself, no other thoughts, no one’s perspective forced upon you, it’s just you and your introspection 

Being introvert, often I would get peace in my solitude. But I this time it was different. I was broken again. It’s always feels great to be loved, but not every one can get this. Reason can be anything, as simple as negativity, bad vibes.

But then to be truly happy, you should have no expectation, none from anyone. Once again life taught the lesson. That first page of my notebook from the 1st semester of engineering with the quote of Einstein (“if you want to live your life, tie it to a goal, not to a person, not to things”) was just jumped out of somewhere from the memory. It’s just to true.

Far from the distance of crowd, in your little adobe, you are all yourself, just like a larva in its coconut. Don’t look around for happiness. Whatever has come, it will go away someday. Don’t get attached. Try to find your purpose of life, and we all have something, we all are change makers, we all are contributing changes here or there. Now it’s time to accept the change

Ekala chala…..

Persona

We all shall take break. But at times, when it becomes prolonged, you get time to think and rethink, and you get to think a lot of thing including you, yourself.

I believe if not all, most of us, want to be unique. And by unique what we mean, we mean our "Persona", how we would like to be perceived. But at times the burden of that Persona, which is not always your true-self, is so heavy that you even can't think of breaking it. Can we?

We all experience frustration, depression, at times. And it's quite natural. Isn't it similar to being happy or excited in some way. All these are human emotions after all. And like all the other things, its us, who have judged what is wrong, what is right? What is acceptable, what is not?

For my entire life I have been a good person; either a good boy, or a gentleman. Doesn't matter how hard you try, things are not always under your control. You loose temper. You want to shout, you want to shout so loud that you would be relieved from all those pains, the agony. Yet, you can't do it. Because you don't want to be perceived that way. 

It takes a lifetime to create an image, a persona, but one wrong act, and its broken, shattered are your reputation. Your image is gone.You are all wrong. You loose the respect, and may be the self respect as well.

But does that worth it all. Will not it be much easier, if we could let loose, if not all the times, at times at least, to set ourselves free.........

After-all we shall be bigger than our image, not the way around

Continued..... 

The human factor

Time is changing, and it will change till the very existance of this planet, we call earth. There might be other planets, there might be an alternate or parallel time, and we might be a part of a multi-unuverse system. I'm too naive for comment or talk on that. But what i was thinking that how the time is changing at current. Our earlier generatio must have had experienced  similar things. But until it happens with you, you are too reluctant to realise the difficulty, and there might also be pain, agony, which we, the younger generation dont understand. But that time have come, change is inevitable and it will happen at any cost.

So coming back to my blog after a long gap, and starting with such a usual topic, i know my handful, but precious readers must have lost the interest till now.

The human factor, its fading, its dimnishing. People in their rushed approach to life have become more of a robot, though they are not accepting it. And irony is that our generartion is about robotics, automation. There is a big gung ho about artificial intelligience, smart system. We, the present generation spend more time with our cell phone, then with our friends. And we are using these smart devices more oftenly for function other than its basic purpose of connecting people. Funny is that, that a brand with this moto "connecting people" has been rooted out of the market, and is now trying hard to get back. But...

We need smart system, there is no doubt on that. They will enhance efficiency, bring in transparency, the mechanical work of human being will be shifted ti these robots, or rather cobots. And we human beings can spend more time with human beings, such as our family, our friends, working on artistic thing. But alas.....

We, as a generation must strive to a perfect balance. We must and we cant ignore the importance of human factor.